Friday, September 24, 2010

...... of beauty and women

Yours Sincerely ( Y S ) used to presume that a beautiful wife is not the sole possession of her husband, beloved or not. Wherever she went, heads turned and eyes ogled. While some husbands might feel proud and share the glory of their prized possession which attracted so much attention and praises, but others might feel some degree of lost as if their coveted possession wore out a little with each gaze and ogling. Yet, there were others who did not appreciate what they already had and kept coveting their neighbour's supposedly greener lawn. Well, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we are not the ones to judge. And beauty may be skin deep, yet ugliness goes right to the bone.

What is beauty in a woman ? Sophia Loren once said that " Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief she is beautiful." It is a sort of bloom on a woman. If you have it you don't need to have anything else; and if you don't have it, it doesn't much matter what else you have. Of course, the cosmetic and fashion conglomerates would deny it to their dying breath for they have lied to the fairer sex all this while by suggesting that if you don't have it they can provide it. Use this brand and wear that brand !!! Well, fashion itself is a form of ugliness and it has to be changed very often. By the way, even cosmetic surgeons have jumped onto the band wagon. Cut this out, add this on, suck that out and inject this in !!!

They say that plain women know more about men than beautiful ones do. But beautiful women don't need to know about men. It is the men who have to know about beautiful women. The whole trouble is due to the fact that in every man's heart there is a secret nerve that answers to the vibrations of beauty. And many have been made slaves !!!

Well, Y S likes what Sloan Wilson once said, " The definition of a beautiful woman is one who loves me." And there is a difference between beauty and charm. A beautiful woman is one I notice. A charming woman is one who notices me. LOL

Everything beautiful has its moment and then passes away so they claim. But what is beautiful is good, and who is good will soon be beautiful.

Let us be good so that we can be beautiful .............

5 comments:

footiam said...

I like that= A beautiful woman is one who loves me. It should be true for a beautiful man too.

Thomas C B Chua said...

footiam, handsome man. True ! It is better to be loved than to love. Right! Tks 4 visiting.

AJ7 said...

Whatever happened to inner beauty??? These are days of the cosmetic surgeons, beauty care providers....

yee ping said...

inner beauty is important but the beauty that people see everyday plays an important role too. a beautiful face can attract people attention. it is important for those who work as salesman.

Thomas C B Chua said...

AJ 7 & YPing, of course, physical beauty is only but skin deep whereas inner beauty traverses through the bones to the core of the heart, and one which time cannot rob. Tks 4 visiting.